One Thought Away
- Shea Ingrassia
- Jun 15
- 2 min read
We grow up hearing phrases that quietly program us:
“Wisdom comes with age.”
“You’ll understand when you’re older.”
“It takes time to learn these things.”
They sound harmless, even comforting. But layered beneath them is a subtle conditioning: that healing, understanding, and clarity are somewhere out there—on the other side of time, years, or struggle. That we must wait. That we must suffer first. That becoming whole is a reward we eventually earn.
But I’ve come to learn something different.
Healing isn’t about time.
Wisdom isn’t granted by age.
Clarity doesn’t come only after hardship.
These things live closer than we’ve been told. Much closer.
They live in thought.
Because every experience you’ve ever had, every reaction, every choice, every belief—was first shaped by a thought. One single thought.
Our reality is created in the mind first. Every story we tell ourselves about who we are, what we’re capable of, what we deserve… begins as a sentence in our own consciousness. And here’s the beautiful, humbling truth:
We are always one thought away from remembering who we are.
It doesn’t take a lifetime. It takes a moment.
A single moment where we choose a different thought.
A single moment where we say:
I can let this go.
I am worthy of love right now.
I am already connected to Source.
I don’t need to earn what is already mine.
You’ve likely been taught that time heals. And yes, time can give space, offer perspective. But it’s not time itself that heals. It’s the thoughts you choose in the space that time offers.
You could have decades pass and still hold the same thought that keeps you bound.
You could have one second of a new thought and be completely free.
The distance between your desire and your reality is never about time.
It’s about alignment.
And alignment happens in thought.
This is why so many spiritual paths speak of stillness. Because when we slow down, when we get quiet, we can hear the thought we’ve been living inside of—and we can choose again.
We can find the thought that brings us to…
To healing.
To clarity.
To truth.
To love.
And just like that, we eliminate the distance.
You don’t need more years to become wise.
You don’t need more pain to be powerful.
You don’t need more steps to be ready.
You need only the thought that aligns you with the truth of who you already are.
That’s how close you are.
One thought away.
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